Saturday, 7 December 2019

Telling me how I should feel when you do not know my pain...

The Issue of sickle cell disease has been one on my mind for many years. One of the reasons is mainly because I suffer from SCD myself. I have had many people say to me, Oh, you do not look like a sickle cell patient..; I believe that's just due to God's infinite grace (as well as my inherent good looks, of course).

So I am not going to go into the description, definition and analysis of what the condition is, there are many journals out there that have done a much better job than I could ever achieve.

What I can do though is bust a few myths:

Myth #1 - Sickle cell patients do not survive past the age of 25. Okay, this is a difficult one. I know of people who died quite young as a result of complications due to the condition when they went into crisis. My mother used to take me to the Sickle Cell Clinic in Korle Bu General Teaching Hospital for my routine check-ups (anybody know Mr Lamptey, the then Clinic administrator?). There, I met a young girl my age whose mother was my mum's school mate. We used to meet at these clinics and there were often shy 'hellos' followed by long, meaningful silences. When we got to Secondary Form 3, Nadine died suddenly from complications from having her menstrual cycle. That was what I was led to believe anyway. Following that, in 1980, a couple of school mates died from complications as well as a cousin.

My father, however, lived to be 82. I am now… maturing, so the age thing is not really true. There are various forms of the disease and those with SS strain are more likely to succumb at an earlier age than those with SC. But the “dead at 25 is (was) a generalisation that many have wrongly made.

Myth #2 – All sickle cell patients need regular blood transfusions. Not all, some do, but when in crisis, what I need most are fluids. My treatment really is saline fluids by intravenous transfusion. Some strong pain killers too, but sadly, I have had to justify  this to my local A&E on many occasions. Since Whipps Cross Hospital seemed to have dome away with the crisis pathway for Sickle cell patients, there seems to have been nothing but continual arguments with medical professionals. Some “experts” have even suggested that I try alternative treatments like the use of stability balls to relieve the discomfort.

One thing I do is drink a lot of water, as much as I can manage (depending on the availability of toilet facilities).

Myth #3 – The regular use of strong pain killers will turn sickle cell patients into addicts. I have regular prescriptions for strong pain killers like Tramadol, diydrocodeine and diamorphine. Most days, I function quite well without these strong meds, but sometimes it is hard to ignore the pain. Managing the skill and developing the ability to perform adequately as an adult under the influence of strong medications has been something close to an art, that I have had to develop over the years. Sometimes, my reaction to the side effects of the medications can mean an early phone call to work to say I wouldn’t come in. Not many employers or managers have been accommodating. I have never been so insulted by medical professionals as when they have tried to suggest that I take less of painkilling medication and deal with the consequences. Or take up, pilates…..

Myth #4 – Sickle cell patients cannot take up physical exercise: I took part in active sports till September 2005 at least twice a month. Sadly, in September 2005, I went to play football with the guys after work and ended up in hospital for 12 days with pneumonia like symptoms and a blood clot on my left lung. That put an end to my budding footballing career, and Arsenal lost out on a world class striker that year. (I am talking about Henry, after 2005, he moved to Barcelona.) These days I do a lot of walking and moderate tasks for cardio vascular stimulation. Of course, as I have got older, I enjoy watching people on TV getting the cardio exercise that I need, and I am currently developing a process of mind transference so that I can equally benefit from athletes performances, just by me sitting on my couch.

Myth #4 – There is always a trigger to crisis: Not always, sometimes you just get unwell. It may have been due to an infinitesimal sequence of events or seemingly innocuous actions that you may not have taken seriously, quick trot for the bus (that gives me chest pain, so I no longer run for the bus); getting caught in a cold shower: enjoying too much sea air on a summer’s day (10 days in Whipps Cross after church trip to the coast); but I seem to have developed some internal sensors that warn me of when a crisis is looming so I need to slow down.

So those are some of the myths I aim to dissipate with stories of my experiences.

So what would I like for the future? I don’t know really, maybe access to a disabled car park once in a while so that I can drive to work on bad pain days; that I do not have to pay fully for all my medications every time I need them since I use them quite regularly;  managers who will be flexible enough to support staff members with a condition that has unpredictable onset.

I would also like people to just not assume that all I have said here relates to all sickle cell sufferers. Please speak to the individual you know about their experiences; they may not be the same as mine. We may have shared experiences, but not necessarily have everything in common. What we seem to share in common are the negative attitudes we face from some managers, work colleagues and medical professionals.

There! My public health campaign for the year completed.




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